Don't Hesitate to Say "No"
1.別人請求幫助時，在什麽情況下我們會說"不"
2.為什麽有些人在該說"不"的時候不說"不"
3.該說"不"時不說"不"的壞處
Don't Hesitate to Say "No"
To help those who are in need is always regarded as a traditional Chinese moral. However people have to know well what the need is before the help is offered. When the need is just for some minority's benefit and against most people's interests, or when it is immoral or unlawful, people should not hesitate to say No. Otherwise they will put themselves into trouble.
Unfortunately, there are so many such examples around us that people end up their leadership in jail or bury their glory in shame simply because they don't say "No" while they should. Some people are reluctant to say "No" in front of all kinds of briberies as they want to swamp their power for money. They can't resist the temptations of accumulating wealth in a fast but illegal way. For their own good and their friend's favor, these people would sacrifice millions of RMB Yuan for an unproportional commission and therefore stake there future on scales of law. Other people don't say No because of misinterpreted friendship and lack of sense of law. They never hesitate to do whatever their friends ask them to do. They believe they are helping their friends even when they are actually violating the law or local regulations. Such people will also be punished according to the degree of their misbehavior.
Therefore, to help is not always doing good. People should learn to say a No when the help might hurt other people's interests.
毫不猶豫地說"不"
1. 別請人幫要求協助時,在什麽情況下解況們會說"不"
2. 為什麽有些人在該說"不"的字句時不說"不"
3. 該說"不"時不說"不"的壞處
毫不猶豫地說"不"
幫助那些需要一直被視為中國傳統道德. 但人們必須知道什麽是前提供幫助. 必要時隻是一些少數民族的利益,對大多數人的利益,或者是違法或不道德的,我們不能諱言第否則將成為麻煩.
不幸的是,有很多這樣的例子在我們周圍,領導人民結束了自己的輝煌裏埋葬或因不辱說"不",而應該. 有些人不願意說"不"前,各種賄選要權錢交易的沼澤地. 不能抗拒的誘惑,而非法斂財的快速道路. 對自己好,朋友的青睞,他們將犧牲了數以百萬計的人民幣unproportional委托關系,因此,在未來的法律尺度. 不說別人不理解,因為缺乏友誼和法律意識. 他們毫不猶豫地做他們的朋友,請他們做. 他們認為他們的朋友,幫助他們即使是違法或地方性法規. 這些人也將受到程度的偏差.
因此,並不一定辦好事,幫助. 應該說,沒有人知道何時可以幫助其他損害人民民眾的利益